I went to see this a few days ago.
And I took J with me - a big mistake. Do not take your significant others to watch this movie unless you're sure he likes a girl-flick. Since this is one. The ending was shitty, but I really did like this movie. And I simply love Cate Blanchett. There's really something different in that woman. She's running middle age and is gorgeous. I wish I'd look like that when I get older.
If you like other historical dramas, go see it. It might not be worth your money, but it's worth your time.